WRITING: THE PERSON THAT WILL HELP YOU SUCCEED
Welcome back to Kufre
Ekpo’s blog!
I'm hoping my blog post that I shared
with you last week have helped you a bit to become a better, more successful
writer. That excites me.
In the last post, I talked
about four productivity strategies that have helped WRITERS to be successful
and that have kept me (moderately) sane. My hope is that they'll do the same
for you.
In today’s blog, I will be
discussing on one person who has the greatest impact on your writing success,
which is yourself. There is this popular quote that say -"The thing
always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it
happen." – Frank Lloyd Wright
It is against this
philosophical dictum rightly put by Wright, lies in the fact that You
are the sole engine of your writing success. You are the person
who determines how far you'll go in this wonderful gig called freelancing. All
your emotions come into play in your quest for success, but none is more
important than this:
Belief
in yourself!
Frank Lloyd Wright's quote
says it better than I could. The thing you really believe in always
happens.
I've seen this truth played
out many times. When I meet someone in writing arenas, for instance, I can pretty
quickly tell if this person is going to succeed. It has nothing to do with
skills and knowledge … and everything to do with that sense of belief in
self that shimmers through shyness and uncertainty.
You've made a commitment to
be a Writer. You're determined to learn what you need to learn to succeed. Not
just succeed and make money, but succeed and make a distinguish mark. It's
inside you. That’s the determination, the drive, and above all the passion.
And concerning the
self-doubt, there's not one successful person who doesn't confront self-doubt
regularly.
Self-doubt
as barrier … or as motivator
I’ve been a very successful
seasoned Administrator before venturing into freelancing and copywriting. I
knew I was good at what I did. And loved it. But at least once a week, I looked
myself in the mirror and thought I was looking at a fraud.
I asked other successful
people around me if they ever felt the same way. "All the time" was
the typical answer. I've asked the same question of many people in other professions
– including copywriters. They all acknowledge the same undercurrent of
self-doubt.
Why doesn't this overwhelm
them? Why shouldn't it overwhelm you when you feel it? The simple truth is -The
strength of your belief in yourself is stronger. It has to be.
I'm convinced that the
single biggest contributor to self-doubt for you as a writer is this:
"It's not happening fast enough." Or, so you feel.
Certainly, the desire to
succeed is powerful and necessary. But the desire to succeed too quickly can
undermine your belief in yourself. You're not in a sprint when you
became a freelancer. You're in for the long haul.
Believe in yourself. And I
do, too.
Until then … I have a
favour to ask. I'd love you to read and make comments. You can leave them here in the comment section.
Let me know what you think.
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